Its Just Not Okay

I was talking to 5 women recently and they all were reflecting on their marriages/relationships that were riddled with pain, betrayal, neglect, abuse, mistreatment and some form of abandonment. All

The Kinda Woman

Be the kinda woman that other bitches study and on you’re worse day you are still ten times better. -Dana Lena’ About this Life.

Purpose and Love

Purpose woke me at 4am. Writing, creating becoming. Reproducing is amazing. Love reached out and touched me shortly thereafter. Encouraging me not to go back to sleep, but to make

Poetic Flow: Langston Hughes

To Artina, I will take your heart.I will take your soul out of your bodyAs though I were God.I will not be satisfiedWith the little words you say to me.I

Every Single Thing

I just want to admonish you not settle for mediocre love The real thing is out there Every single thing you want, desire, crave, need, long for GOT TO HAVE

Poetic Flow: All of It

Wide open My nerves on heightened alert Pores a door gate to ecstasy My mind is dancing and expanding with every elaborate word I can taste food before it hits

Likened to the Sun

Sun is defined as: the luminous celestial body around which the earth and other planets revolve, from which they receive heat and light, b: a celestial body like the sun : STAR 2: the

The Fight to FORGIVE

BITTER… RESENTFUL… ANGRY… HATEFUL… UNLOVING… CYNICAL… IMPRISONED… GUARDED.  SEEDS OF UNFORGIVENESS….and to think that the person who carries this weight is the one who was hurt- NOT the one who

Poetry In Motion

I do not want another name on my lips Or my tears to fall on another chest I do not want another lover No one else will know me our

Why Lent!!!??? Not AGAIN….

Do less of this! Do more of that! Definitely don’t think this, and don’t be caught saying that! Don’t eat this, don’t wear that, don’t listen to this and don’t be

Girl Space!

Ya’ll already know that I am a champion for companionship and covenant relationships. Equitable partnerships are beautiful and we benefit from suitable companions who positively contribute beyond measure to our

No Second Date!

It was about 8 years ago when I met a man I will refer to as Tom. We glanced at each other at the light as I pulled up to


When we are leaving a love It is natural 2 feel as if we may never love “that way” again Our heart remembers the last memory….almost always fondly Regardless of

Your Comfort Zone SUCKS!!!

It is pleasant. It is warm and cozy. It is where you are, have always been and will continue to stay because there is no risk of hurt, disappointment, failure